Don't Take Anything Personally

I have a lot of negative thoughts lately

- Unfriended na ko sa facebook ng dati kong coach sa competition
- I'm not in good terms with my previous employer even with my college classmates
- Napaka yabang ko noon , maldita at insensitive ... dahil don marami akong nasaktan at inaway
- Right now, I'm vulnerable
- I loose a lot of friends
- I cant fit in with my new company
- My family knew that I'm earning more that's why they tend to demand more
- Marami ang nangangamusta pag may kailangan na lang at hindi para tanungin ka kung ok ka pa ba
- I failed again in love

What's wrong with me?
Am I I that bad?

It hurts when people are trying to avoid you.
Am I a toxic person?

I'm changing now because of my mistakes.

But sometimes, I just cant recognize myself

Being a different person somehow makes me unhappy.


But this morning, while I'm scrolling down my linkedin newsfeed, I read this article saying this,

" As you make a habit of not taking anything personally, you won't need to place your trust in what others do or say. You will only need to trust to make responsible choices. You are never responsible for the actions of others; you are only responsible for you. When you truly understand this, and refuse to take things personally, you can hardly be hurt by the careless comments or actions of others."

"If you keep this agreement, you can travel around the world with your heart completely open and no one ccan hurt you. You can say, "I Love You," without fear of being ridiculed or rejected. You can ask for what you need. You can say yes, or you can say no - whatever you choose - without guilt or self-judgement. You can choose to follow your heart!"

Then i realized it is true. This is all I need.

I don't have to bully myself

I dont have to punish myself so much

I don't have to blame myself for everything. It is not all because of me.

We just have to accept the fact that we can't be accountable for other peoples choices